A eulogy you can actually get through.
Built from the facts you give, in your voice, with the pauses marked — so the words carry you instead of the other way round.
Who is in the room, and what should they feel at the end?
Turning notes into a eulogy
The order that works: the concrete thing, the story, the turn to the room, the closing line.
Honest, not cheerful
How to include the hard parts without the speech becoming a reckoning.
Reading it out loud
Where to pause, how to handle the moment you cannot speak, and the one line to keep in reserve.
Questions people ask first
Can you help if I never met them?
Yes — the pack asks what you know and writes from that, and tells you plainly what it will not invent.
How do I stop crying while reading it?
Shorter sentences, marked pauses, and a person to look at. The pack writes the pauses in.